The abuse continues after each visit my children have with their father. Each time they come they come with a message that begins with "tell that slut".
This time it was 1. How many men has that slut had in her bed 2. Tell that f-ing slut that she needs to quit f-ing so many men. 3. Tell that slut my friend hates her f-ing guts 4. Ask that slut she is doing with the child support I pay her. 5. Tell that slut that I need more clothes for you kids at my house. (I buy two separate wardrobes. One for his home and one for mine)
How on earth do you put up with such crap? There are more ways of skinning a cat than just one!
What or how do you answer your children? They know its not true. They know I have and have had only one consistant boyfriend for many months who am now engaged to.
This evening I did start crying in a store when the kids were telling me these things. Tonight I spent another hard earned 34.00 on personal supplies for the kids such as deoderant to have and keep at his house. He makes the oldest wear his left over used deoderant. I also had to buy them nail clippers because their dad tells them that he can not afford them. He does not return them in socks or underwear and when he does its the wrong sizes. I do my best to be humble and provide for the kids in two households when he makes twice as much money as I do, but I am still THE SLUT. I try to treat him with kindness and respect to make it easier for the kids when they are with him. AND YET I am still the slut. There is no pleasing this man.